This whole process has led me to writing an inspirational book that I hope will help you cope with the loss of a loved one, as my experience has helped me. Some say, "but I watched my loved one die, and I saw nothing, how come?" I don't know why there is or isn't any paranormal activity surrounding an individual's experience. Maybe it is there, but they don't have an open mind to accept it, so they don't see it. But for every person who sees nothing there is another who sees or feels something. It might be just as simple as feeling a brush against their skin or a smell in the air that reminds them of their father's cologne. I have heard many stories of signs.
There have been many signs of life after death in my life since I can remember but there are times in my life I have been disconnected from the spiritual side of myself and neglected to pay attention.
Never again will I doubt that we do live on. The evidence is just too painstakingly clear. And I hope that you have the opportunity to see it just as clearly as I did, if you haven't already.
God bless and be well.
Paula